Hi world wide web
So as per the title Relationships, i have had a interesting two years in terms of relationships and by interesting i mean dismal.
I went from meeting someone that i was truly crazy for to being someone that become truly crazy. Relationships seems to do that to people it either goes one way or another . The one way it can go is that two people meet , like each other eventually start dating. This grows over time you become long couple and fall in love ..........we all know how that goes from they become the couple we that the other direction wants to be. What is the other direction you say well form it went a bit like this we met under award circumstances she was dating someone I was single and i perused her(Wrong i know this now) eventually after sneaking around we became a couple officially but as with most things in life if the building blocks are not stable the structure will eventually crumble this i learn t i hard way or as some say Karma is a bitch ! Things started to go wrong about 9 months when lets call ourselves person 1 started to venture out of the relationship not drastically but in terms of communication was liaising with other people which overtime turned from friendships to something more. This of course now effected the original relation that was started and of course one person 2 found out trust was broken. Now we all know trust is like when you smash your new vehicle , it can be repaired but it will never be same. the peoople in relations will always seem to knot believe fully as to what the other person is saying. I am not saying you can trust again but if you want to go forward and fix it it would require both parties actively making a real effort .
In the end the relationship broke down to much hurt and damage was done and we parted ways , as time moved person 1 and person 2 slowly healed from hurt and things were getting back to their respect normal lives . My side since we don't know who is 1 or 2 here i can say time doesnt always heal all things i believe allot is left once a couple parts to the waste land of feelings which is ok if you intend never to get back to together.
I said intend , now my intention was never that but after around 9 months person 1 and person 2 saw each other and the flood of feelings seems to engulf us and before we knew it we wanted to give it another shot. we wanted to be like the couple that go in the direction of long term , love etc .
Things were great first few weeks but person 1 always seem to have doubt as well person 2 which i believe was due to foundation not being solid and the feelings that we dumped to wasteland , they were never resolved , questions not answered and no explanations given. This eventually once again lead person 1 out to venture from the relationship and person 2 to be back there square one.
As you can see where this going it broke down again , now where do does this us well decisions have to made as to what we both are doing here and why! maybe we were caught up in the feelings in the beginning but reality will soon set in , life happens routines become normal and that excitement dwindles then you left with real things to deal with .
I can only speak for myself when i was effort made yes from both sides, but was that enough to carry through i don't thing so because feelings were not dealt with .they say sometimes its easier just to apologize to keep the peace i say maybe you should say something to keep your sanity.
So as per the title Relationships, i have had a interesting two years in terms of relationships and by interesting i mean dismal.
I went from meeting someone that i was truly crazy for to being someone that become truly crazy. Relationships seems to do that to people it either goes one way or another . The one way it can go is that two people meet , like each other eventually start dating. This grows over time you become long couple and fall in love ..........we all know how that goes from they become the couple we that the other direction wants to be. What is the other direction you say well form it went a bit like this we met under award circumstances she was dating someone I was single and i perused her(Wrong i know this now) eventually after sneaking around we became a couple officially but as with most things in life if the building blocks are not stable the structure will eventually crumble this i learn t i hard way or as some say Karma is a bitch ! Things started to go wrong about 9 months when lets call ourselves person 1 started to venture out of the relationship not drastically but in terms of communication was liaising with other people which overtime turned from friendships to something more. This of course now effected the original relation that was started and of course one person 2 found out trust was broken. Now we all know trust is like when you smash your new vehicle , it can be repaired but it will never be same. the peoople in relations will always seem to knot believe fully as to what the other person is saying. I am not saying you can trust again but if you want to go forward and fix it it would require both parties actively making a real effort .
In the end the relationship broke down to much hurt and damage was done and we parted ways , as time moved person 1 and person 2 slowly healed from hurt and things were getting back to their respect normal lives . My side since we don't know who is 1 or 2 here i can say time doesnt always heal all things i believe allot is left once a couple parts to the waste land of feelings which is ok if you intend never to get back to together.
I said intend , now my intention was never that but after around 9 months person 1 and person 2 saw each other and the flood of feelings seems to engulf us and before we knew it we wanted to give it another shot. we wanted to be like the couple that go in the direction of long term , love etc .
Things were great first few weeks but person 1 always seem to have doubt as well person 2 which i believe was due to foundation not being solid and the feelings that we dumped to wasteland , they were never resolved , questions not answered and no explanations given. This eventually once again lead person 1 out to venture from the relationship and person 2 to be back there square one.
As you can see where this going it broke down again , now where do does this us well decisions have to made as to what we both are doing here and why! maybe we were caught up in the feelings in the beginning but reality will soon set in , life happens routines become normal and that excitement dwindles then you left with real things to deal with .
I can only speak for myself when i was effort made yes from both sides, but was that enough to carry through i don't thing so because feelings were not dealt with .they say sometimes its easier just to apologize to keep the peace i say maybe you should say something to keep your sanity.
